Ok, my twin girls are 3 years and 3 months old. We're having the oddest trouble with potty learning. They CAN do very very well when they want to. They've gone several days with absolutly no accidents and little, if any, prompting from me. They can hold it for hours and hours and will often go to the toilet by themselves.
But they'll often have days when they don't even TRY to go to the toilet. They'll just go in their training pants/underwear and not even tell me!! And then when I try to clean them up, they fight me tooth and nail!! They hate being cleaned up and I'll often have to litterally wrestle with them to do it! I know that's horrible but what choice do I have? I can't just leave them full of poop/pee? Especially when they were just wearing a pair of regular underwear and they'd end up spreading it all over the house!!
They hate being prompted/asked to go to the toilet and will often refuse no matter how much I beg, plead, bribe or make a game out of it!!! And that's regardless of wether they have to go or not, they could easily go themselves 5 minutes later! It's anyone's guess as to wether it'll be on the toilet, their pants or the couch!!!
I could handle the accidents if at the very least they'd let me clean them up afterwards!