|I know what you mean! I can come across too hard, too, and I have to be careful how I talk about it.
When I was pregnant, one of my neighbors said to me: "I don't know if you ever considered using cloth diapers, but if you are interested, I can give you the name of the company I bought my diapers from (Mother-Ease). They are amazing. And if you want any information or have any questions, just ask me."
I had absolutely no intention, back then, to use cloth diapers, but I was still curious so I asked her a few questions, looked online, read the forum, found out how easy people said it was and ended up using exclusively ME diapers. If my neighbor had been more pushy, I may have been put off, but she did exactly the right thing and I can't thank her enough for it because I LOVE my CDs! So now I try to remember her example when I talk about my diapers, but it's hard!